I received two more rejection slips the same day this week. One of the greatest challenges for new writers is the sure string of rejections certain to appear in the mailbox or inbox of your email. Without a doubt, managing this aspect of an emerging writer’s career is the most daunting.
The immediate visceral response to these tends to be it as a confirmation of one’s greatest fear; that is, having embarked on what amounts to an impossible journey. It results in once again analyzing the wisdom or sanity of trying to write for publication. This includes a deep consideration regarding whether or not all the time, effort, and energy spent producing our work would be better off spent on other things.
The story I received the rejections for, You Look Like My Daughter, ultimately is about how we choose to interpret things. A key to surviving as a new writer is in understanding the need to interpret rejection in the context of one’s chosen goals.
Writer’s Relief, the research group I used to help determine where to send out Daughter, and whom I will blog about as I am sending out my next, says it takes at least 100 rejections before one is successfully published. Using this as a guide, I can also think of it that I am 1/10 of the way there. The rejections I received this month were for a story sent out in July. That is why having multiple works out is so important. The steady feedback that your work is out there and you are increasing your chances by these numbers is imperative. Because one of the thrills of being a writer is the potential to have your work read by a wider audience I am realizing that while I am making progress in the numbers game, I need to get more work out there.
To me, at least this early in my excursion into the world of writing fiction, a rejection means I actually have met the goal of getting some work out there. It also is a good checkpoint for me to update my plan. Since it happens to be close to the New Year, it is a perfect opportunity to incorporate my interpretation into my writing resolutions.
Is the glass half full or half empty? Half full definitely works better to keep one going. For now, I think I’ll stick with this one!
Coming soon: A writer’s New Year’s resolutions.